{"id":2145,"date":"2018-05-29T04:50:26","date_gmt":"2018-05-28T18:50:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.funkyfriendsfactory.com\/blog\/?p=25585"},"modified":"2019-02-05T10:44:44","modified_gmt":"2019-02-05T00:44:44","slug":"sew-your-stress-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.funkyfriendsfactory.com\/blog\/sew-your-stress-away\/","title":{"rendered":"Sew your stress away!!!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have to admit&#8230; even though I am a very happy and upbeat person, just like everyone else <b>I struggle sometimes with too much on my plate and the stress that comes from it. <\/b><\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">&nbsp;TOTAL over-load gets me <b>down!<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><center><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-10712\" style=\"border: 1px solid #a8a5a9; padding: 4px;\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.funkyfriendsfactory.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/12\/Early-days-some-soft-toys.jpg\" alt=\"Pauline McArthur early days - some soft toys\" width=\"476\" height=\"357\"><\/center><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">In those situations, <strong><br \/>\nI turn to my sewing machine!<\/strong><\/p>\n<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\"><!--more--><\/h1>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><b><span style=\"color: #8fae46;\">Sewing soft toys works like magic to snap me out of it!<\/span> <\/b><\/h2>\n<p>I get totally focussed choosing and cutting up gorgeous fabrics, carefully pinning the pieces together with a gazillion pins so the pieces don\u2019t slip as I sew, then making sure the seams meet up perfectly. Then I turn the toy right-sides-out and it looks so cute it makes me smile!!! \ud83d\ude00 <strong>I can\u2019t wait to stuff it&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-25588\" style=\"border: 1px solid #a8a5a9; padding: 4px;\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.funkyfriendsfactory.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/toy-stuffing-dog-soft-toy.jpg\" alt=\"toy-stuffing dog soft toy\" width=\"365\" height=\"274\"><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Then reality hits and I HAVE to stop because it\u2019s got dark outside<br \/>\nand I need to eat dinner!<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\"><b>It sounds a bit dramatic but there have been times in my life when sewing has been a lifesaver for me. <\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><strong>Like when I moved to Australia.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Not only was I dealing with the challenges of living in a new country, I also had to go back and re-sit my qualifying exams all over again if I wanted to work as an Optometrist (even though I had 4 years of training and 10 years experience!) The thought of sitting exams all over again totally freaked me out. It was so long since I\u2019d studied and every time I picked up a textbook my brain just \u2018went to sleep.\u2019 After a few months of trying really hard to study, lots of tears and some serious soul-searching, I eventually decided NOT to do the exams, which meant I would NEVER work as an optometrist again.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><b><span style=\"color: #8fae46;\">Leaving the&nbsp;career I&nbsp;worked for my whole life was a major decision for me and I had to work out a new career path!<\/span> <\/b><\/h2>\n<p>I decided if I couldn&#8217;t work AS an optometrist, I would work IN an optometry shop instead and try and do something \u201ccrafty\u201d that I really enjoyed on the side.&nbsp; That job wasn\u2019t stressful&#8230; but I was bored out of my mind &#8211;&nbsp; which for me is actually also stressful!<\/p>\n<p>It would drive me crazy, sitting there waiting till closing time, because no one came in most afternoons. S0 I kept my mind active (and myself awake!) by taking my patterns to work so that I could pass time in the afternoons. Once I\u2019d finished my work for the day, I could cut out fabric pieces to sew together when I got home.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-12887\" style=\"border: 1px solid #a8a5a9; padding: 4px;\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.funkyfriendsfactory.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/11\/sewing-toys-for-charity.jpg\" alt=\"sewing toys for charity\" width=\"451\" height=\"338\"><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I had so much fun sewing soft toys for my friends, family members and co-workers!<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #922c82;\"><b>But most importantly, sewing was a wonderful escape for me! <\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Sewing helped me through a very stressful time. Focusing on something creative that I really loved helped me to relax and stop worry that I was &#8216;wasting my life away&#8217; in a mind-numbing job!<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #8fae46;\"><b>I could actually enjoy going my boring job knowing I\u2019d be able to keep my sanity doing something really meaningful to ME. <\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>What a difference it made! I was in a good place (mentally, if not physically!) which made everything WAY more tolerable and I was definitely more patient and compassionate towards others. I even made it my mission to make getting spectacles a stress-free, even exciting experience for every customer!!!<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">I felt energised instead of<\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">totally drained!<\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-18320\" style=\"border: 1px solid #a8a5a9; padding: 4px;\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.funkyfriendsfactory.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/Pauline-McArthur-soft-toy-sewing-pattern-designer-Australia-snake.jpg\" alt=\"Pauline McArthur soft toy sewing pattern designer Australia snake\" width=\"520\" height=\"390\"><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><b><span style=\"color: #800080;\">I realized sewing soft-toys made me HAPPY and I could create that same feeling and experience for other people!<\/span> <\/b><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s what I have been focusing on for almost 2 decades with the Funky Friends Factory, which has grown into something way bigger than I could ever have imagined and has touched so many lives besides mine&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>It\u2019s still quite mind-boggling for me! \ud83d\ude42<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This year I challenged myself to think about what I can do to make sewing soft toys even more FUN which has led me to my biggest project to date &#8211; <strong>The Sew Many Funky Friends Club<\/strong> &#8211; an online Club specifically for people who want to have FUN sewing soft toys!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-25604\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.funkyfriendsfactory.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/SEW-MANY-FUNKY-FRIENDS-header-pic2.jpg\" alt=\"SEW MANY FUNKY FRIENDS\" width=\"600\" height=\"243\"><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">The feedback I have had so far has convinced me that people are finding this is a wonderful group to hangout in and escape from the daily stress of our lives and bond over our shared passion for sewing plush toys! \ud83d\ude00<\/p>\n<h3><b>The Club will be opening again soon, for a <\/b><b><i>short period of time<\/i><\/b><b>, for the next intake of new Club Members. I will be having LOTS of fun sew-along activities to celebrate so you can come and check out the fun and be a part of our group of fun-loving softie-sewers!!!<\/b><\/h3>\n<pre>&nbsp;<\/pre>\n<h2><b><span style=\"color: #8fae46;\">Stay tuned by&nbsp;<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff; text-decoration: underline;\" href=\"https:\/\/popup-click-open-trigger-1\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">subscribing to the newsletter!<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/span> If you are on my email newsletter list, you will receive all the announcements coming soon as well as ALL the fun sew-along activities!<\/span><\/b><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile, as we wait for the reopening, I want to hear from you!&nbsp; What have YOU been doing lately to de-stress that&#8217;s <strong>&#8216;JUST for YOU&#8217;<\/strong> to keep you sane when things get crazy?<\/p>\n<h2>How long has it been since you focussed on doing something fun that you really enjoy &#8211; TOO LONG?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" title=\"Pauline McArthur\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.funkyfriendsfactory.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/Pauline-McArthur.jpg\" alt=\"Pauline McArthur\" width=\"202\" height=\"196\"><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">. <strong>.<\/strong><\/span><br \/>\nTill next time\u2026<br \/>\n<strong>Happy Sewing, <\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><strong> Pauline<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>xxx<\/strong> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"White-Spacer\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.funkyfriendsfactory.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/04\/White-Spacer.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"520\" height=\"30\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How long has it been since you focussed on doing something fun that you really enjoy &#8211; TOO LONG? <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":14902,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[18,19],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2145","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-a-day-in-my-life","category-blog"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/blog.funkyfriendsfactory.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/Soft-toy-designer-pattern-design-course-idea.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.funkyfriendsfactory.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2145","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.funkyfriendsfactory.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.funkyfriendsfactory.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.funkyfriendsfactory.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.funkyfriendsfactory.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2145"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blog.funkyfriendsfactory.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2145\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.funkyfriendsfactory.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14902"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.funkyfriendsfactory.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2145"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.funkyfriendsfactory.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2145"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.funkyfriendsfactory.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2145"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}